August 7, 2008 at 16:39:55

Headlined on 8/7/08:

Nancy Pelosi Book Signing: Know Your Power, Just Don’t Speak Truth to It

by Cheryl Biren-Wright Page 1 of 4 page(s)

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Arriving at the steps of the Free Library of Philadelphia Tuesday night where House Speaker Nancy Pelosi was promoting her book, "Know Your Power," I was promptly scolded by my good friend, activist Joanne O’Neill.

"What? No impeach sign? Here, take a sign," Jo insisted. "Nope," I replied. "I’m goin’ in."

An hour earlier, I swallowed my pride - along with some bitter acid reflux - as I shelled out 17 bucks to purchase a book about "knowing my power" authored by a woman who has spent the last few years wielding very little of it when it mattered the most. But, a little heartburn and forgoing a few lattes for the rest of the week was what it was going to take for me to get close enough to pose a question to the "most powerful woman" in America.

Having learned of the event just the day before, I was relegated to the simulcast room with about 60 others as the auditorium was sold out. I spotted one friendly in the crowd, but he was clearly in plotting mode so I decided to crack the binding of my new book while I waited for the Speaker to arrive. It was a quick read at just over 170 pages laced with anecdotes, some touching, some inspiring - okay, not so much.

It did offer some unique insights. A few grabbed my attention, though I am sure not in a way intended by the author. The reader is invited back 60 years to her father’s Mayoral inauguration. Nancy and her brothers were sent to a room to wait quietly before the ceremony. When a man walked in and engaged them, Nancy upheld the family rule of not speaking to strangers. Her brothers determined it was okay to say hello. When they discovered the man was the outgoing mayor and it was his office, they quickly found themselves in a standoff.

Pelosi recalled, Joey said to me that he was going to tell Mommy that I was not polite to the Mayor. "If you do," I said calmly, "I will tell Mommy that you talked to a stranger." I had just turned seven, and Joey was nine. I didn’t squeal on him, and because I’d earned his respect, he didn’t squeal on me.

Anyone with a sibling can easily recall such a moment. It was Pelosi’s assessment, however, that gave me pause. She writes of the occasion, "I had just built my first strategic alliance."

A common explanation for why the House Speaker took impeachment off the table is that the table could easily be turned on her because of her prior knowledge of and complicity in some of the most egregious offenses by the Bush administration. Perhaps she determined this was one of those times where it would be in her best interest not to "squeal."

Another charge made against Pelosi and other Democratic leaders is their insistence of putting Party before all else. In "Know Your Power," Nancy Pelosi recounts the assassination of Bobby Kennedy and the tone of the 1968 Democratic Convention.

She writes, "Hubert Humphrey won the nomination, but the Democratic Party was still divided, particularly because Vice President Humphrey did not disassociate himself from Johnson’s Vietnam War Policy. I, too, opposed the war, but, wanting to get a Democrat in the White House, I stuffed many ’Humphrey for President’ leaflets under apartment doors that fall." Need I remind anyone we ended up with Nixon?

In her book, Nancy Pelosi tells us how much she admires "disrupters." Yes, disrupters. "Sometimes," she explains "it is necessary to disrupt the status quo. That is the tradition of our country. Our Founders were disrupters - magnificent disrupters. Martin Luther King Jr. was a disrupter, as were the suffragettes. It is the American way. The change that resulted from these leaders has made our country greater. How can we follow their lead?"

Funny, I don’t recall in the time that Ms. Pelosi has served as House Speaker her appreciating our nation’s wave of disrupters all that much.

Alas, I would be personally reminded later that evening in a not so subtle way by the Speaker and her security detail that not only does she not appreciate disrupters, she doesn’t take kindly to anyone like myself who would dare...ask a question.

I was deep in thought about Nancy and the Disrupters and it was beginning to give me a headache when suddenly the energy in the room changed. The women around me perked up, inched to the edge of their seats, and leaned forward in eager anticipation. Nancy Pelosi was about to make her entrance.

Tamala Edwards, morning show anchor for 6abc Action News was selected to moderate the evening. Did I mention she was with ABC? As Ms. Edwards sat with a small pile of index cards, Madame Speaker made it clear from the get-go who was going to guide the discussion. She regaled the audience with vignettes from her book and they ate it up and swallowed it whole. Tamala allowed the Speaker to take her monologue as far and away from it’s starting point as she cared. Occasionally, when Pelosi’s voice tapered off and she allowed for an opening, Tamala would inject an innocuous question like, "Do you ever get scared?"

To this, Ms. Pelosi offered sage advice worth repeating here. "People always ask aren’t you scared and I say just strike that word from your vocabulary. This is not for the faint of heart as I said. This is not for the faint of heart. You can’t be afraid. You have a vision, knowledge, a plan. You have support. This is what you believe in. If you show one cent of being afraid, your options are destroyed. So you have to believe in what you are doing and you may not win every fight, but you will advance the cause."

She used the phrase "not for the faint of heart" earlier as it related to success and failure. "We have to understand," she said "the challenges of success as well as the lessons of failure. Organize, don’t agonize. We just have to move on. Politics is not for the faint of heart. Don’t let me give you this impression that people are waiting with open arms to pull you into power. Nobody. Nobody ever in the history of the world has given away power."